Part III Twin Flames, the ultimate guide to healing yourself. The Universe wants your union as much as you do and always has your back

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This is part III of a three piece series on Twin Flame healing. I was asked to write an introduction to the healing aspects of the Twin Flame journey for the bigger groups on Facebook because many newbie twins struggle with this concept. Please read Part I – Why is healing such an important part of the Twin Flame journey? and Part II Why healing is a solo endeavor but you can’t do it alone first, to fully be able to understand the context part III plays in your personal healing process.

The Universe wants your union too

By far the biggest obstacle to Twin Flame union is the almost hysterical fear that most twins feel, based on what they see in their 3D reality – that union will be out of the question in this lifetime. Given what they see to be the external circumstances, it just seems impossible.

If you have read Part I and Part II of this series you now know that the 3D reality we experience in the physical is in fact a pseudo reality, based on what we hold to be true inside ourselves.

One of the major wounds to heal on this journey is our connection to the Divine. In order to incarnate into the physical and to have the knowledge of everything by free will and not through dogma, we needed to live in the illusion of separation. This gave us a chance to experience the Ultimate Truth as a physical reality instead of a mere intellectual concept. A truth isn’t a truth until it is experienced, until then it is only a theory or someone else’s truth at best.

In order to live in the illusion of separation we needed to disconnect from unity consciousness. Just go back to Part I of this series and re-read the excerpts of the Biblical texts and you will understand that this was the beginning of misunderstanding life in the physical. A punishing God who exiled us from the Garden of Eden for being disobedient, is exactly where things went ‘wrong’ for us in our relationship with the Divine. Like many young children, we as young souls misinterpreted the actions of our loving parents, our father/mother creator.

Like any loving parent, our father/mother God wants our total fulfillment and happiness. It wants us to be ALL that we can be and it will stop at nothing to support us in this process. Yet it goes even further than that because the Twin Flame journey is so much more than just another ‘boy meets girl’  story or any variation thereof, it is truly a Divine Mission. If you have not downloaded the free Inner Union Soul Alchemy manuscript, you can do so now as it will give you even deeper insights on why also the Universe is very keen on you and your twin coming together in union. Your love is meant to be so much more, than just a romantic love affair. It is in fact a blessing to all mankind when you and your twin come back together in harmony and union.

It’s not a cruel joke

Back to our misconception of the Divine Plan…

Through our youthly misinterpretation we felt disconnected, abandoned and forsaken by the Divine and that has been our frame of reference throughout the ages.

Fast forward to meeting your Twin Flame once again here in the physical plane on planet Earth, you experience this out of this world love that you have never experienced with any other person in this lifetime before. You are on f*cking cloud nine, having met the love of your life and then it all goes to the shitters or at least so it seems…

Many twins find themselves extremely angry with the Divine for showing them such an amazing love, such depth of connection, such utter bliss and then ruthlessly snatching it away from them again. To many twins, it just seems like a cruel joke that the Universe plaid on them fully triggering any wounding they have about not feeling worthy to have what they want.

Being a child of the Universe is pretty much the same as the womb experience we have as babies (in normal pregnancies) before we are born. The Universe is ALWAYS saying YES!!! to us, just like a mother’s body deprives the baby nothing, all systems are rigged in the baby’s favor, life is rigged in our favor.

The placenta an organ that is formed in the uterus during a pregnancy feeds the baby, ‘breathes’ the baby (oxygen supply), protects the baby and relieves the baby of any waste products. This fully being taken care of and supported in every way on a micro level in the womb, is what the Universe does for us on a macro level once we are born.

The reason we DON’T see it that way, is because we have been conditioned to believe throughout the ages based on the original misconception as young souls, that we have been abandoned and forsaken by the Divine. We have been trained to believe by the ego which was the tool we needed to enter the illusion of separation, that there was only one person looking out for NUMMERO UNO and that was the I you identified as being YOU.

The largest part of this whole journey is shifting out of this 3D ego identification, back into the 5D Soul truth and unity consciousness. Just as Twin Flame separation is an illusion so has the separation from the Divine and the expulsion from the Garden of Eden been an illusion all along.

The Universe ALWAYS has your back

The truth is that the Universe ALWAYS has your back and is forever working in your favor and towards your highest good.

But just as earthly children sometimes feel their parents actions are unjust or a punishment, we Universal children tend to mistake not getting our way in a very similar fashion. Making it mean we are unloved by our creator, that we are being punished, or treated unjustly – basically any wound that we still have around our relationship with our creator gets triggered. This is because we cannot see the bigger picture in the way that the creator does. Just like an earthly parent can oversee consequences, that the earthly child cannot comprehend. It cannot see that the parent is acting in it’s best interest instead of against it.

When things don’t go as you would have liked them to develop remember:

Rejection is the Universe’s protection.

In fact every spiritual platitude you know is TRUE and meant to be LIVED as a physical reality, not just spouted out as wise words that make you come across as a sagely guru…

Many people know the talk, but they are not living it.

When you live as if the Universe ALWAYS has your back, you don’t fret when things go differently because you trust that whatever is unfolding, is for your highest good and meant to bring you closer to your heart’s desire. Most people do the opposite when faced with adverse appearances they spiral off in fear.

It’s exactly this dichotomy between choosing for LOVE or FEAR as is the basic teachings for example in a Course in Miracles, that symbolizes our relationship to the Divine. It’s when we choose for Love that we feel the love, the utter deep connection and support of our maker, yet when we choose for FEAR is when we feel most cut off, unloved, disconnected and forsaken by the Divine.

When we shift our perspective to LOVE, we can see and experience that womb state nurturing feeling and that the Universe does indeed supply us in our each and every need, just as the placenta fulfills this function for babies born from their mother’s womb.

Our father/mother God has created an environment for us that is forever supporting us and working to bring us our highest good.

What healing tools does the Divine have to support you?

As in any self sustaining ecosystem your physical environment wherever you find yourself on planet Earth is fully equipped to meet your each and every need. You will most likely not be fully optimizing this, as the 3D paradigm conditioning is one of scarcity and lack. But scarcity and lack are Spiritual falsehoods as the Spiritual Truth is based on unconditional love and unlimited abundance.

Which means that if unconditional love and unlimited abundance are the truth of your existence, all you will ever want or need in this moment is already there ready to be noticed by you. The fact that you don’t see it now, doesn’t mean it’s not there – it only means you are not seeing it. The baby can’t see the mother either while still in the womb, it doesn’t mean the mother is not there…

So let’s look at some of the ways the Divine is supplying your each and every need on this journey.

Healers and healing modalities

Healers and healing modalities are in fact a gift of the Divine to us and not as some people rooted in scarcity consciousness believe only there to steal your money. Granted sometimes you can end up working with the ‘wrong’ people – read this article here for tips on how to avoid fake healers and charlatans both online and offline. Every profession has some rotten eggs, that’s not a reason to avoid them altogether. With a little discernment you can easily find the perfect healing partner for you.

Sometimes people think that there is less chance of getting cheated when they work with offline healers, but the most important criteria for selecting a healer is not how they do their work – it’s what level of consciousness have they reached themselves. It is their own level of consciousness that determines how in-depth they are able to assist you.

In that regard you often can get a better idea of the level of consciousness from someone with an online presence, because on their websites or in their videos you can already get a feel for their level of understanding. The deeper their own understanding, the better your experience will be, because they will bring that depth into everything they do including a healing session with you.

To be honest it is not the healing modalities they use which makes a good healer, it is their own ability to channel the healing powers of the Divine that make or break the true effectiveness of their work.

I don’t consider consulting psychics as healing work, unless they can tell you where your wounds are which some do. Those kind of psychic reads can help you know where to look with other healers, most psychics don’t do both read and clear. It is an unusual combination, just like you won’t find many talented designers that can write good code as well or experienced developers that are any good at designing. All in all it is really better to work with healers such as listed below than spend too much money on people who point out the issue and are the solution, you can spend thousands of dollars on getting curses, black magic and the works cleared and still not have made any progress in your own healing work. These kind of services often feed off your fear that otherwise you will never come into union, but the real wounds that are keeping you out of union are inside of you – and that is where they need to be addressed.

You will find that if you ask the Divine to guide you, that the healing modality and/or healer that you need will miraculously show up in your life and more often than not be a part of your current living environment, i.e. you won’t have to look far. They will either work close by or you can work with them from the comfort of your own home (online or by phone).

  • Guided meditations and healing activations (does not replace working one on one)
  • Chiropractor (promotes energy circulation and removing energy blocks)
  • EFT (tapping)
  • Shamanism
  • Chakra clearing/balancing
  • Energy work (Prana, Chi, Reiki)
  • Acupuncture and cupping (promotes the circulation of Chi)
  • Kinesiology (muscle testing)
  • Regression
  • EMDR
  • Craniosacral therapy
  • Infinity healing
  • Energy channeling (Twin Flame Reunion Journey)

There are many different healing modalities more than I can mention here. This list can get you started as you need to heal all four bodies: the mental, emotional, vibrational and physical body – so you will need different healing modalities to address them all.

I don’t do guided meditations so much at the moment, but I have in the past. I do monthly craniosacral and energy work with my favorite healer. On top of that I have worked with many other different healers. I also go to the chiropractor and acupuncturist regularly, as both of these methods aid in removing energetic blocks in your body. It’s not only the mind and the emotions that need healing, those thoughts and emotions also influence the body. Approaching your healing from the physical bodies perspective can have a great effect on your mind and emotions as well, it is all interconnected. Therefore your healing should also be approached from all levels.

Gifts from Gaia to support you on your journey

Let me give you a list of some awesome supportive healing tools:

  • Gemstones
  • Flower essences and gemstone elixirs
  • Solfeggio tones and binaural beats
  • Epsom salt or Magnesium salt 20 minute footbaths to help release negative energy
  • Aromatherapy, essential oils and sprays
  • Homeopathy
  • Herbal medicine
  • Walks in nature forest, seaside, countryside

None of the above can replace working one on one with a healer, but they can really help intensify the healing process and support you during your transformation process.

Let me give you a personal example, at this moment I am using a second chakra essential oil to prepare for a second chakra clearing ritual that I will be doing later in the year. I am using a homeopathic liquid to support the effects of a healing session I did with another healer three weeks ago. From my favorite healer I have a flower essence of Arnica I am working with at the moment for soul shock. I bought zincite which I was lead to in a miraculous way that seemed to support what I am currently working on both physically as spiritually.

The Universe and your higher self will guide you in your process

Just like you get all these signs and synchronicities regarding your twin, if you pay attention, you will see that these signs and guideposts go WAY beyond just your Twin Flame connection. They are there to show you the way forward wherever needed.

Many of my clients are brought to me in this way, a male client knew to come and find me based on the song ‘The sailor and the mermaid‘ by the band Mystery. Other clients tell me I just popped up out of nowhere on Facebook or on YouTube and they knew instantly that they had to book a Twin Flame Reunion Journey with me.

In my own experience the Universe often takes me on a scavenger hunt. This is also how I was lead to buy the Zincite I mentioned earlier. So I was out for an evening walk with my mother talking to her about my Twin Flame connection and as we were heading back home we walk through a park where we see a heron. There is no water and the heron is standing next to a kids playground looking completely out of place.

As I had never seen a heron in that park before and because he looked so odd there standing next to the kiddy slide I knew this was a sign and that I should look up what the heron symbolizes as a totem animal. If you think I am the only one checking totem animals of animals showing up in weird places watch this video here.

If you aren’t Googling the animals you notice yet, you should start. These animals are shown to us to guide us in our journey.

When I searched the meaning of the heron I learned a new word – Liminal spaces

It said:

‘Comfort in multiple elements is also symbolic of easy transitions. If you find yourself in liminal spaces, that is, if you find yourself ‘in-between’ phases, places or people in your life, the heron can give guidance on how to easily move through those ‘in-between’ moments of your life.

Meaning of the heron deals with being comfortable in spaces that are neither here, nor there. It prefers hunting at twilight, which is a symbolic and magical time of ‘in-between’. The heron will have one foot on land, and one foot in the water – this action has been recognized by ancient cultures as a sign of liminality – of crossing into the a space that is neither here, nor there.’

This is exactly where I found myself in my own Twin Flame journey in an in-between space, out of an old reality that had fallen away but not yet fully in the new reality that is still forming. So I started looking for a gemstone that would support this process and found Cassiterite, however this stone didn’t give any real results on the Dutch translation to order locally. This brought me to the Zincite which was the closest possible to the metaphysical properties of Cassiterite, while I wait for my Cassiterite shipment from the US that I ordered on

Cassiterite helps to release cellular memories and for this to encourage deep healing at the soul level. It will aid in healing old childhood issues and release energetic stuff that is holding one back from their life’s journey.’


This is exactly where I was at in my healing process, healing at a soul level. This wasn’t about this life anymore or past lives in general, this was about healing on the deepest soul level.

This weekend a friend of mine came over to visit from the UK, she is in a Twin Flame connection as well. When we were walking home in the dark she spotted a hedgehog next to a park bench close to my house. I have been doing evening walks for years in this neighborhood and I have NEVER spotted a living hedgehog sitting on the grass in any of these walks. The friend immediately recognized the hedgehog as a Twin Flame sign and when we looked up the totem animal meaning it was EXACTLY what we were talking about when the hedgehog crossed her path. It was that she saw the hedgehog cause I didn’t, but then it wasn’t my sign. It was a message to my friend.

The Universe is literally dropping cues and clues everywhere to help you come into full alignment and the physical manifestation of your heart’s desire, when you allow yourself to see it.

Why not having money to pay for healing is the worst excuse and simply not true

The biggest obstacle a lot of Twin Flames encounter on their journey are Money blocks, they feel they can’t afford to work with healers or invest in healing aids because they have no money.

Firstly this is of course caused by the outdated scarcity paradigm which they are still holding to be true. Remember Part I and the Boolean values true and false? People believing in a lack of money still believe scarcity to be true when it is in fact a false reality that we can choose to live because it helps us experience the other side of the coin, but lack is a pseudo reality. The Ultimate Spiritual Truth is as I have said before that we live in a Universe of unconditional love and unlimited abundance.

Secondly money is nothing but another form in which energy manifests itself, there is nothing wrong, unspiritual or evil about money. Many people on the spiritual path have huge issues with money which just all comes down to their own relationship with love. Read this article here if manifesting money is a big issue for you, in this article I interview Money expert Maartje Koper about the relationship between love and money. The reason many Twin Flames have money problems, is because they have an issue with receiving love.

But all the regular reasons for money issues aside, the #1 Reason why lack of money or scarcity is a pseudo reality and not the truth of your existence is because it contradicts the womb state or the self sustaining ecosystem that the Universe facilitates for all it’s inhabitants. Why would the Universe deny you access to the things you want in life, if it loves you unconditionally and has unlimited means to give you what you want both material and immaterial. The problem is not on the Universe delivering end, the problem is on your receiving end.

To quote the Bible again Matthew 6: 25-34:

25 “Therefore I tell you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat or drink; or about your body, what you will wear. Is not life more than food, and the body more than clothes? 26 Look at the birds of the air; they do not sow or reap or store away in barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not much more valuable than they? 27 Can any one of you by worrying add a single hour to your life?

28 “And why do you worry about clothes? See how the flowers of the field grow. They do not labor or spin. 29 Yet I tell you that not even Solomon in all his splendor was dressed like one of these. 30 If that is how God clothes the grass of the field, which is here today and tomorrow is thrown into the fire, will he not much more clothe you—you of little faith? 31 So do not worry, saying, ‘What shall we eat?’ or ‘What shall we drink?’ or ‘What shall we wear?’ 32 For the pagans run after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them. 33 But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well. 34 Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own.

Even these verses in the Bible reiterate that we are meant to be supplied in everything we desire. We are meant to have it all. If you are not experiencing having it all, it means you are still somewhere cutting yourself off from the never ending stream of unconditional love and unlimited abundance the Universe has directed at you. All you need to do is reconnect to your birthright, as a child of the Divine this is your living inheritance.

When it comes down to healing on the Twin Flame journey, remember the words in the Alchemist:

‘When you want something, all the universe conspires in helping you achieve it.’

What most twins with money problems do is close the door on their manifestation immediately. It’s their own negative thinking that keeps them imprisoned because they tell themselves things like this:

  • I can’t afford healing
  • I don’t have the money to go to healers
  • Healers are too expensive for me
  • I can’t come into union in this lifetime because I don’t have money to work on my healing
  • and so on…

This quote from the Alchemist is also not a spiritual platitude, this is how the Universe works! When you WANT something or better yet DECIDE TO HAVE something (because want actually keeps you locked into the energy of lack) all the Universe will conspire for you to have it.

Money is never a problem, your NEGATIVE thinking is the problem and this may sound harsh but if I can get through to you today with this message it will change your life forever, no matter what your current financial situation is. There is no lack, lack is a unreality. It is Maya, you need it as a pseudo reality to help you in the full experience of the everything your soul incarnated in the physical to get full knowledge of but it is not the Ultimate Truth of your existence and as the powerful co-creator you are, you can CHOOSE to change your money story any time you want.

When you truly decide to buy something, the money will show up. (see screenshot on the left – this I hear from clients on a regular basis). It is the Law of Attraction in action. Spirit really wanted me to get this message across to you today and gave me this conversation with a client the night before I published this blog, so that I could help you open your mind to creating a new reality. A reality in which the Universe always says yes to you and money comes with the decision to have what you want.

This is not your current reality because, you are so used to thinking it is impossible (based on your belief that scarcity is real) so you never even make the decision. But in reality you are like the insect, who stays in a drawn circle because it believes that the line it sees confines it. The truth is that the insect, can leave the circle at any time as it is only inkt on a piece of paper. It’s not a real confinement. The only true imprisonment is in the mind, this is also true for the imprisonment of lack of money. It seems very real, yet just as the insect you can choose to leave this reality behind you at any time – because YOU are the only one holding yourself prisoner.

Have patience, Rome wasn’t built in one day

When you embark on this healing journey you need to do two things:

  1. You need to let go of the outcome (i.e. chasing Twin Flame union)
  2. You need to have patience

Things will go as quickly as they go. If you are really throwing everything at it and diligently working towards your goal things will progress. But let me burst your bubble right here and now – if you think that one, ten or even twenty healing sessions is going to do the trick. There is no fixed timeframe, no magical number of sessions. It will just take as long as it takes.

Time is an illusion anyway, this thing is going to take as much time as you both need to heal what needs to be healed. The dynamic behind this connection goes much deeper than most people can comprehend and I have done my best to explain it in this three piece series. In my online program the Align to Your Divine Plan Twin Flame Mastery Program that is part of the Twin Flame Tribe membership, I need three months just to get you through the basic principles. There are NO quick fixes, trust me I tried everything.

This journey simply takes time. It’s not about rushing into a relationship, as I have pointed out over and over again it is about so much more. Yes, you are meant to have it all and that includes union with your Twin Flame – yet you are also meant to come home to your true self your soul self and to ONENESS not only with your twin but with ALL THAT IS. The latter doesn’t happen overnight, it doesn’t mean (and I have said this before) that you can’t have a physical relationship with your twin before that process is complete, but it is realistically going to take more time than the timeframe in which regular 3D romantic love relationships come together.

It can be very discouraging at times and because most of the wounding is subconscious, you can sometimes be left wondering wtf is the hold up now. It’s very tempting to believe that it’s only your Twin Flame that is creating delays by not getting with the program, but that is an illusion as well. Also don’t forget, the Twin Flame journey is rigged in your favor and any delays and obstacles are only meant to bring you into a deeper alignment to your union.

Divine timing is truly at play here, you and your twin’s soul have pre-planned this whole journey together. This doesn’t mean you can just sit back and wait, but it also means that the you down here on earth playing it out in the physical, does not have full control over this situation – as much more is involved here then only this lifetime. Your 3D self will definitely feel lost at times because it cannot see the bigger picture, but in time your higher self will show you why you needed the extra time and that it all has unfolded in perfection.

Reminding yourself of this fact on a regular basis, will help you ease through the most tenacious impatience that is inevitable on this journey.

I hoped you enjoyed this three piece series on Twin Flame healing, if you are interested and excited to know how we can help you in your Twin Flame journey and Ascension process, check out the Tribe Mystery School for modern-day Initiates on the Twin Flame and Ascension path. In our signature program, the Inner Union Soul Alchemy Program we walk you step by step through the process of coming into inner union with your own soul. Inner union, is a prerequisite for true Twin Flame union and creating ‘Heaven on Earth’ from the inside out. You can also book an Akashic Record Clearing to release deep pain and trauma (including fears and false beliefs) from this and previous lifetimes.

Sending you love and light on your Ascension path and Divine partnership journey, you are forever protected and guided. All is well.

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Sabriyé Dubrie

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Sabriyé Ayana is the leading expert on the Twin Flame journey and inner union process. As a Twin Flame leader, teacher and healer she helps Twin Flames understand that this journey is not just about creating a fairy-tale and they lived happily ever after together... It's an initiation path to Ascension. Download the free Inner Union Soul Alchemy manuscript to find out more.